The Truth About Domestic Violence

Many charge the foreign bride industry is responsible for the abuse of women. Unfortunately, domestic violence is a product of all domestic partnerships, the statistics bear this out. The rates of violence, psychological and physical, are about the same for lesbian, gay, and heterosexual couples. No evidence supports the notion foreign brides are any more likely to be victims of this scourge than their native born sisters and brothers. Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Health
Domestic violence among GLBT people

In recent years, GLBT survivors of domestic violence have begun speaking out about their experience in increasing numbers. New organizations have been created to address the issue and provide support to survivors.

Historically, though, there has been an overwhelming silence about same-sex domestic violence. Many people still don't believe that same-sex domestic violence really exists, and people who are victims are often ashamed to tell their communities or families. In fact, numerous studies have shown that violence in heterosexual and same-sex relationships occurs at approximately the same rate (one in four).

Domestic violence in lesbian or gay couples is largely the same as it is in heterosexual couples. One partner maintains control over the other person and limits his or her freedom to socialize. The abused partner becomes isolated and confused. The abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, psychological, economic, and verbal. The abuse doesn't happen all of the time-there are sweet and close periods that are interrupted by unpredictable violence.

After the violence the abuser may be apologetic, asking forgiveness. Many survivors find that when they move to end the relationship, their partner may increase the threats and manipulation. The abuse often gets worse over time. If there are children living in the home, they are terrorized by the violence even if they are not hit themselves.