Ladies Tours...Yea, Depending On Your Attitude

Foriegn bride agencies provide bride tours commonly sold as packages, including hotel, excursions and mixers with local ladies. Tours vary depending on the agency, I'd be sure to shop around extensively, and really follow up on referrals.

One such tour operator in Colombia states,

"Meet beautiful Medellin ladies on our 7 day / 6 night Colombian tour. Your tour will include two fabulous parties with 50 to 100 gorgeous Medellin women. The women of Medellin are considered to be the most beautiful in ALL of Latin America. With only 10 to 15 men on average, you will have more than a 7:1 ratio, and that is just the first night. Then, we do it again the next night with all new ladies. All ladies are members of our service and are interviewed prior to attending. Besides our social events, we also do unlimited personal introductions during your entire stay. Many of our clients will date two or three women a day and some will even date five a day. Our staff is well experienced and will make your stay the best it can be. This is why we have over 80% success rate on our Latin tours."

The message is clear, "you'll be neck deep in beautiful women, with more than enough variety to make the cost worth your while." The ad is rough and unapologetic in its appeal to male desire. But businesses the world have to turn a profit, and even in cultured America advertisers appeal to our basist desires.

Some men read this ad dreaming of the constant attention, perhaps the opportunity for some extracaricular activities. Women the world over understand while men may be sincerely interested in marrying they're not about to pass up opportunities that present themselves. Women get it, the rules of courtship don't change that much from Davenport, Iowa to Medillein, Colombia.

Men are far more likely to be drawn in to a dream of beautiful women, parties, maybe even sex. They might be tempted to forget that women the world over are the same, and they do so at their peril. Just like the nerdy doctor who marries one nurse after another, obsessed with access to women denied in early years. Age is no guarantee of maturuity, and those who enter relationships on these terms are doomed to failure. Those who enter the courtship process understanding marriage accept it as a trading of some measure of spontanaiety, lust, and sexiness, for the more refined companionship and love.